Whether you have one or two friends that you hold near and dear to your heart, or if you have dozens of close friends who enrich your life, it’s important to take the time to acknowledge, celebrate, and maintain these friendships. Implement these tips in your friendships, and you’ll always have someone in your life to raise a cheer, offer a sturdy shoulder, and lend a listening ear.
1 Show your friends appreciation. There’s no wrong way to tell your friends you’re grateful for everything they bring to your life. Everyone gives (and receives) appreciation in different ways. Decide whether face-to-face, a phone call, a Facebook message, or a personalized greeting card is the best route for your friendship. If you’re worried about appearing awkward or excessive, keep your message short and sweet.
2 Have fun with your friends. Everyone’s idea of a good time is different, but it’s likely that you and your friends share some common interests. If you and your friend find yourselves doing the same activities over and over, suggest trying something new. Take a class, do service in your community, try a new restaurant, or tackle a DIY project together. (We’re especially fond of the last suggestion, and we’re happy to help you find the right tools for the job.)
3 Help lead your friends to solutions. When your friend is having a problem and looking too closely at the situation, your most valuable role can be an extra pair of eyes to help guide them to a peaceful resolution. Make sure to listen to the problems your friend is having with an open mind, and try thinking outside the box for solutions. It’s easier to see the bigger picture with a level-headed friend around.
4 Give your friends thoughtful gifts. Chances are good that your friends tell you things they don’t tell acquaintances or family members. Oftentimes these things are complaints and expressions of frustration. Listen closely when your friends are venting, and when the time comes for a birthday or holiday, give a truly thoughtful gift with the unique ability to solve a problem. For example, if a friend recently called crying because she locked her keys in her car for the 5th time this year, consider putting the iKeyless Car Remote on your shopping list.
5 Communicate with your friends. Every now and then, your friendships are likely to hit bumpy patches. That’s okay! Make sure when the rough patches come, you maintain focus on how valuable your friendship is. Handle arguments with patience, taking turns to understand one another’s perspectives. If your friend has wronged you, try putting yourself in their shoes and respond the way you hope they would respond if the roles were reversed. If something in your friendship is bothering you, be fearless in speaking up. A genuine friend will do their best to make sure you’re comfortable with the dynamic.